we tried to end things on numerous occasions but because we felt so deeply about each other, we continued. Maybe you can do that for him. That is what you need. She was upset of my rejection but I thought about and said yes. Im sorry i did it, but idk what to do now, a month has past since we stopped talking all together. You could be questioning your feelings because maybe deep down you dont think you deserve something good in your life. You never leave the one you love for the one you like. I have been in a relationship for 7 years, we have 4 kids together. How do I fix this? I dont know what to do. I have a feeling he is going through some sort of emotional crisis, like a breakdown. I helped her with everything. Why? Thank you for your comment. Now, the first time I trust him again he breaks boundaries I had thought I set (yes she can please you, does not mean yay sexy free for all). Every other fight we have, he breaks up with me, annoying, and he calls me names that are really hurtful. For me saying those few words I am in love with you might have changed everything. Until these funny things get 110% cleared up, I would not trust him no matter how nice he is to you. Good luck. Before we became official we were casually dating for about 4 months. He is not a bad person at all, and I believe that his mistakes are just a manifestation of his past. I have several thoughts. But its so far gone, that even fixing it is painful. Though it was something they used to do before he met me. She finished college and at 29 got pregnant with a guy she was dating for a couple months. I fell out of love with my baby. Anyone can retaliate. im full of anxiety because i feel i may have to make a decision once gain. This crushed me of course and I was miserable all summer. But it kept happening. He decided while he was in his truck to start a dating profile. I was now suspicious of everything I shouldve been a private investigator because the amount of time I spent checking up on him, where he was, who he was with, etc. i am currently working on myself and stripping all the negative behaviors from my soul to avoid reoffending. GoodTherapy.org is not qualified to offer professional advice, but we encourage you to reach out. I was in deep depression of my finances, my anger has been a problem I had lost my licence, I lost my job I had which loved. I am devastated. You can love the fun times youve had; you can love how they made you feel, but you cant possibly love who they are if you call them ignorant, etc. I threatened to get custody of our son and I wanted her out of the house. You've learned to become someone who doesn't do things that you hate. Were in a long distance relationship and for the past year, Ive been treating him like a dog. Even before he got to know about this I myself knew that I did wrong. Sexual intimacy all but waned & emotional connection had stopped many years prior. I feel like I am being punished for this and I really am having trouble with trusting another guy. After some talking and planning we decided to bring someone in to our sexual relationship. Will I ever be able to get over this and look at him with the same eyes I used to? Yes, it makes sense but there is no way I could help you w/o actually seeing you and talking this thing through. She will not believe me. We fell right back into old patterns. Until three months into the relationship when he decided to break up with me because he wouldnt allow anything to distract him from his studies. I surprised him at his house and I found him in the living room talking to another girl. No matter what you try to tell yourself. We have only been separated about 6 weeks (feels like an eternity) and she says dont have hope it will never happen I should move on. On the back of the first drunken night I went to therapy, but I dont feel any real improvement in myself. I know its as much time as he needs but I wish that I could have some idea of what that is, what is typical. Its urgent. I now feel un appreciated, alone, unwanted unloved and betrayed and yet I still love her and though she doesnt believe me, I tell her the easiest part of moving on his forgiving her, but that we need help if we truly want to get thru this. Im in my head constantly, HOW TO GET OUT? I low key want to move on, away from him. My ex has a crush on some guy who makes her feel better because I unknowingly cut her down. He started to act like his father. Remember this: Loving is giving. The kind of trust and respect we had is something that neither of us had ever had with anyone before and is devastating to lose. I need to keep him safe and I need to revamp my whole attitude around him. Hello Dr. Deb I have never known of an open relationship that was at the same time emotionally close and loving. You and your partner have a strong, committed relationship. Even though we werent back together i still felt as if we were. me (25) and my girlfriend (22) have been dating for over 5 years. Any advice you could give me would be great. I would quote Elie wiesel here "Opposite of love is not hate its indifference" So you have already crossed half a way you don't "don't care" about that person. Even then, while we were in public, I didnt really like showing my love for her in front of other people, especially my family and friends (I used to though). and for the past 5 years I lived a life where I was scared to leave the house unless necessary out of fear of having another attack. Weve seen each other a few times and hes kissed me and huggedwithout me pulling him in. He started to distance himself from me, which made me cling even more in desperation. He gets frustrated by it sometimes gives up. I found out recently that Ive been suffering from generalized anxiety and I tended to blow up whenever we got into an argument. Bt last month my own cousin brother seduce me and unluckily I had sex with him..as I was very much tensed by this.. And my boyfriend recognised this and I told him everything and now he break up with me He hates me so much.. I do have anxiety issued (have OCD) and borderline depression and i dont know if i should read into my sadness or not. now working on things with him. He told me that hes planned on forgiving me, and always planned on getting back together and he tells me that he misses me. My husbands reasoning was better education opportunities for our daughters. That is reason #2 for a therapist to help you. I let him do what he wanted, and he finished in me! I must add that I also feel anger at her Ex who has been through something similar in his life and has 2 children of his own. He tried to make me see advantages of keeping the account ober the disadvantages. You dont really love him; you feel needy. He also admitted to me that we wants to have sex with other women but he still wants me as well. She had told me she wants to see what is out there abd eventually were might get back together but at the same time days we will get back together. we have had our issues, and many of them throughout the years, but he always said US AGAINST THE WORLD! In this way, she or he will get a much better picture of what could be the problem. My boyfriend got back at me and when he went to Peru he cheated on me as well. We got to a point where I had to start fronting her money from our rent that I paid to help buy her some time until her pay came in. Shes basicly had handled so much stress running around for her family and me cause I have mental health illness at the time wasnt there mentally for her. But about a week after that, we sat down and talked and it was the best conversation weve had in a long time. Do you think theres still a chance for us? And not because I liked it I thought it was funny and we were joking around. Then she filed divorce. Then he said he would cut back to quit and that was almost 2 years ago. She was heavily pregnant and due in a week.I wish I had a car to pick her up. Hello, Dr. Deb Each time we have been intimate since the separation he says he can never feel the same about me or get over it. Thanks, Dr. Debb. Despite all this, I didnt support him. My husband did not mention a thing. Gigi you asked about emotional intimacy outside of marriage. If my daughter wants to watch three movies, and I want to watch one, we might end up watching two. I told him we could end the friendship with the other couple but he doesnt want to do that. You have to accept that things happened and you can't do anything anymore to change them. He told me that he was not attracted to me, that he had pictured two younger girls wondering what they looked like naked. If so, please respond. Hello, I got a job, he got mad because he had to quit his. Are your feelings really love or fear of loss? I tried my best to avoid him and the relationship conversations but I wasnt always successful. I cant be friends with someone who broke my heart with no feeling and so easily. I have become very resentful and have a love hate relationship with him. But this, i couldnt. It was so bad I needed to be put on medication for depression. After I discovered some more of his hurtful ways with communicating with other women I moved out. The 15 Ideas For a Perfect First Date Are: I dated 3 women in the past, got cheated on in all 3 while I remained faithful to each one of them. Iv been with my boyfriend 4 6years we have 18month old son an I seen he has been messageing some girl telling her her has all these feeling 4 her an he cant live without her I told him what I found he wont let me message her as he says it none of my bisness, After a lot of arguing he said we can make it thought this but he still has this girl on his fb I love him an dont wanna lose him am I just being selfish tring 2 keep hold nowin he may not love me da same. I did this to prove to her and myself that I love her and she was enough for me and although I had made a mistake in the past , I wanted to be with her and her exclusively. As for where to live, there is such a thing as a roommate service you can look into. When someone comes to me saying, " I love someone who hates me ," things are often not as bad as they think. But i had to reply to know who sarah is by asking who is this but no reply since then. We spoke daily and text for a month before we agreed to see one another. I came to the conclusion that I was projecting my feelings towards myself on to her and that I was really hurting both of us. Hi there, I love her dearly, but fear im not in love with her anymore. If he comes to the conclusion that he does want to try to make this work, how do I get over all of the hurt and betrayal? Wow your situation sounds much like mine but its the other way around. There may be people you have dated who feel as though they love you, but in your opinion, they dont know you. If theres one particular movie coming out right now that she has been dying to watch, then this could be the perfect option for your first date, so what are you waiting for? Its a long story. But eventually ended with drawn out, heart felt goodbyes to one another. I suppose I still have strong hope that we can be partners again, as our intimate relationship was so healthy and our personalities are so compatible, but Im fearful that this is false hope and Im knocking on a door that has already been shut. However Shes going through a phase where she feels she needs to find herself which I completely understand. I realize I have questioned everything he does and turned around everything he said. Within the first 3 months he started changing. we have tried a few times to get it back, but hes never seemed that comfortable with me and ive been very insecure so its made me hold back on the new me i want to be. tired of all the obstacles we had, especially Your boyfriend didnt cause you to not get into the grad program of get the job. But in our letters, my love grew. As he drew away from me , I confronted him to what was really wrong with him, he told me he fell out of love with me. Researchers in Attachment Theory call this ambivalent or fearful attachment. we were recently told by her mother that she and her grandma will be moving down to Texas( this is her only family keep in mind.) 5 months later he texted me and I decided to talk to him again and slowly we began to rebuild what we had and finally are in a relationship now. Why would the woman I love take something from my past and stab me in the back with it? Things eventually got back on track with him finding a job but our relationship never seemed to recover. I didnt tell him i went outside when my friend was showering. After all, once you know, you can work within these relationships to maximize your happiness and spiritual growth. Hi im only 18 I know Im young, but 3 years ago I met this amazing girl. We both have grown a lot and both are willing to do the work . Thanks in advance and apologies for the length of post but as I said it is all still pretty raw. I slowly over come it but it comes back now and then. However with in those 24 hours he went and got high and now unfortunately he was arrested. Rent it. He told me there was no chance with me and even said he never loved and cared. Although she told me there are always bunch of people upstairs and the place is uncomfortable. A therapist sees you with more objective eyes than you see yourselves. I feel like every time he left me I had a wall build around me that just got bigger and bigger. There was a gorgeous movie I once saw in Chinese (I think) with English subtitles: Hang the Red Lantern (or something like that). I told her to just trust me because Ive done so much for her. But Im trying and Im fighting for our relationship and it seems to me at this point, that hes not. Mom and son- value other things over you during your relationship. He did little stuff like drew roses cut them out and tied a ribbon to send me for v day. So Im 33 and havent had many experiences with relationships. Says for me to go back to those people I now call a family (my car club) he feels like my decision was about my club and the other issues were just excuses . I literally do anything and everything for this man but he would not lay with me. This is due to mobile. His behavior sounds lazy and selfish, I know. I can see in his heart he wants to try because every now and then he will go back to the way he was in the beginning and do nice things for me just because, but then he says he thinks about everything all over again and gets angry again and hesitates. I recently discovered that my husband of 15 years has been texting another woman all hours of the day and night. Pictures everywhere. Is it a feeling or no?? I had a 5 years of marriage. Hi Amber Our marriage of 39 years has had good times, but I have constantly felt my husbands disconnection in both emotional & sexual intimacy. Hi Shay, When someone you thought is the closest to you goes on to hurt you it becomes very tough to deal with the situation and I even felt like I couldnt trust myself anymore :(. I lied. In jan 3 this year she decided to end our relationship. Anyways, some sort of suggestions and way forward from this really what I need. there has been infidelity, roughly 7 years ago, we had a almighty row, and he threw me out of our home, due to facebook inboxes on my end and he was spying through my emails and everything. Other options. Her mom tells me that my wife stills loves me. She spoke to her mum asking if it was normal thing putting it towards wedding jitters. Please help. If youre looking for a counselor that practices a specific type of therapy, or who deals with specific concerns, you can make an advanced search by clicking here: https://www.goodtherapy.org/advanced-search.html. I Wont hold my breath then Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.". I wish he had the ability in him to see that the girl that he says is his best friend is actually not who she appears to be. i am basically utterly devastated and heartbroken, still living in my own home with the man im still utterly in love with, (which i am set to lose as i do not work, have no savings and no where to go, he can keep it due his wage, the mortgage company will not allow me to and he wants all ties severed). He has gone back and forth so many times. Ive been with my husband for 26 years. Me and my husband (together 10 years, married 18m) have 2 children together. It hurt my feelings so bad that I cant spend time with him. How do I get him to see that we are repairable? i have been with my partner since i was 15 yrs old (18 yrs GOING INTO 19 YRS) we have also lived together since that age too. You also must stop putting yourself down. I returned an hour later simply because it was 10PM on New Years Day and I couldnt find a place to go. He was becoming distant the past couple months, and now hes numb. Everything was good. If I should tell him, how would I assuage that conversation? Mim close to his mother as I am his circle of friends who will not have anything to do with the old girlfriend as she has screwed them to. If hes not sure about her, he may abandon both of you anyway. However, our son who is biologically his only sees his birth dad on occasion when he comes over and visits my ex. Im so hurt right now. sometimes we dont argue and we talk about the arguments and we both vow to do better and it goes right back to square one. Hi Someone, I want to help him get that emotional attachment back but am not sure how to. But she still bothers me about renting a place for herself,her brother and baby. Can you give me a few words of advise? After confronting her she and her friend moved to email and then to a Smartphone testing app. But I know that I pushed him away. She is leaving me and nothing I can do or say will fix it. HE drinks but YOU have to be more affectionate? You have to live with all the bad habits and annoying behaviors that you might once upon a time have found endearing. please help me what to do ? Then at that point you just gotta see if youre compatible with each other. She never cursed me out. What assurances will he give you that he is mature enough to stand by you and work things out when marriage becomes stressful? For example he was working out of town and he stated that he had no service in the casino/area he was in and didnt get in contact with me for few hours. This broke me. I love him and always will but I want to feel the same way I did when it all began but I just dont and I just cant, Ive tried for so long to get that spark back but I think the damage is done and im beyond the point of recovery here. He said he wants a divorce as soon as possible. I live with my girlfriend of 8 years and she says she loves me and wants to be with me but she never shows it, living with her is a nightmare, we Dont communicate, we are never intimate, she never listens to me when i tell her how much its effecting my state of mind, i feel so low ATM that i feel like ending my life. When the hatred becomes intense it can temporarily beat out love. Taking charge is a quality that women really like in men so take some responsibility when planning your first date by doing at least 70% of the legwork yourself. Part two (how you feel about your partner) flows from this. To see him with another woman would kill me all over again. He is calm, he usually gets angry when I confront him with things like this, he tells me you didnt do anything to deserve this, Im done I wont do it again. Any advice on how to move things forward or to get her to open up would be really appreciated! He did all of this and I still found things to fear in our relationship but nothing because he gave me a reason to fear it. Now, just suppose the two of you want to maintain the marriage. I started going to therapy and it has done wonders. When he first left me it pulled such a deep rooted rug out from under me. You might be depressed too. Its precisely when we DONT know someone very well that we allow our imaginations to fill in the blanks. But I do have a question: How do you know for certain that you wouldnt relapse into those same behaviors if he gave you a full and complete chance? We carried on to see each other after this however, bearing in mind during this whole period we never were established as a couple. I feel hurt, angry, resentful, disgusted, sad, depressed. Then I was hurt and in pain and our sex life suffered but my wife tried everything to have sex with me but I wasnt having it. He didnt tell me about this girl. I been down this road before with my first marriage. It never happened. to get my husband back into my life.He s a good guy and good husband too. My heart and brain are on two different levels right now. God can heal this and change your partners heart. Im just sitting here typing this, and being numb at the same time. https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/domestic-violence. This hurt him so much, id never seen him act this way. Then comes running back few minutes later. At the time, it was hard for me to accept because we had an amazing time, but I didnt resist or try to make it work, I let him go, even though I was completely devastated and caught by surprise. I have been doing alot of soul searching. we get each other and are in love, even planning on the future but inside when i think about it. I am so upset and I dont even know what can I do. It has felt like I held the whole thing together. I dont know what to do. ilove him soo much. Especially when its broken in half? i go over it in my head 100% of the time, i cannot sleep or anything. i was seeing a counselor but found it of no help at all. Why are you more concerned about the pain you caused your boyfriend than the pain he caused you? None of that is helping. But he was the one ignoring me and the problems in our relationship and it seemed like the more I tried to love him the more he pushed me away. His reactions are not normal. I know I miss our family and though I didnt show it I loved her deeply and wanted to change, I just didnt know how. Unfortunately, I never completed those grievances. He then said he wanted time to think about whether he wants to continue our relationship. To my knowledge neither ever became physical, but the pain wasnt any less. We had a one night stand and he got me pregnant on purpose!! saying it was nothing, they meant nothing, but this ripped my heart out. Im having a hard time my heart is breaking. Hi Rey, So I we shopped for all that. What kind of man he is?? I didnt know that he was getting hurt by this and that Im not meeting his needs when it comes to loving him. We love each other very much but he says he doesnt know if he wants to be with me because when Im upset I threaten to leave and it hurts him for me to use that against him. He claims hes a changed man and that he will do anything to prove to me that he really loves me. Things were not good at home, and Ive always believed that he rescued me. Is all of what hes saying true or is it that hes just so hurt and fed up with me not trusting him and cussing him out on a daily basis. Im on a leave of absence from work until 6 weeks after my pregnancy due to anxiety. We havent talked too often, but these things take time. I know that we each individually have to work on ourselves and make progress but the way she is dealing with things right now I wonder if there is a future for us. He needs to break down his wall because his guard is up with me and he cant even express his emotions. I love her deeply and I know what I have to do to change, but weve been over this ground before. I love him so much and want my family back. My best friend fell in love with me 2 years ago and I could not say yes then since I was moving on from another guy. This time being over affectionate over complimenting. hes very quiet and antisocial, doesnt like the neighbours etc, i love them all! He is the most caring person I know, and to go this far without speaking to me so we could try to fix things, is one of the things that hurts the most. I deserve so much more than to go down with a sinking ship. Im falling out of love with him and I dont think I wanna be with him anymore. My girlfriend had been cheated on in her last relationship and she did not believe me when I told her it didnt happen. I would suggest you have a good look inside yourself and ask yourself what, exactly, you are looking for in this relationship. But I believe in my soul that our story isnt over and I love him with everything I have. My almost 2yr old was born special needs. I dont know what do anymore since we do have daughter and I have to see him. 15: Let her choose the activity instead We had a long talk, and agreed that we have been emotionally drifting over the past few years. Id say I can go with you and hed say naw you cool Ill just go), and he doesnt want us riding in the same car. The pain will go away in time..And I will inevitably avoid him like the plague unless its to do with our kids because emotions are not games we play..I deserve this pain as I have given him far more..Because of how I feel I also believe he is that one..My only love now I just moarn the loss..I began that a few years back..Good luck to you Im sorry for your situation..Just know on my side had I to do it over again, he was very much worth all the love and trust I never gave.. My wife and I will be married for 19 years this year. It's not worth the headaches, nausea, acid reflux, stomach pain, or insomnia you may be experiencing. You must be patient, toowith your spouse and with yourself. He would be the LAST person you would think. I think I know whats going on. I have a problem. And he responds this way: "Yeah, I mean, that's not "all" of it, but it's a lot. 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